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I declare myself MA's first official thread killer #9413
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Every forum needs a thread killer....but I promise you...that's gonna be me. I laugh because I'm sure people are probably thinking "sheesh, who tipped the heat?"

But if you want to be my understudy...I'm sure I can give you an "official title" LOL. Instead of "member" it'll say "thread killer extraordinaire!"

(((((((((((jen)))))))))))))

PS...it's not you. smile


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Show me the proof!

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They can't. It's an evolving process! wink crazy


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Re: I declare myself MA's first official thread killer [Re: KiwiJ] #9429
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I am really slow and junk cause I be done frum nawth AL. What is a threadkiller???

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threadkiller=a member whose posts seem to end posting on a thread, running off all other posters, leaving their final post frozen in time with no responses...essentially "killing" the thread.


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Originally Posted by star*fish
threadkiller=a member whose posts seem to end posting on a thread, running off all other posters, leaving their final post frozen in time with no responses...essentially "killing" the thread.



I was a threadkiller often on the other forum. I mentioned it once and another poster (I'd love to hear from ~ Saturn Rising) kindly said: "Ace, the reason no one posts after you is because your thoughts were so profound, they can't top what you've said so they leave the thread alone."

We had a great laugh about it, but, Jen...because perception is the truth, how 'bout adopting the perception that being a 'threadkiller' is really a compliment because you're such a brilliant poster! :claps: :claps: :claps:

Ace wink



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Re: I declare myself MA's first official thread killer [Re: Ace] #9446
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how 'bout adopting the perception that being a 'threadkiller' is really a compliment because you're such a brilliant poster!

I like that! smile


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Oooooooo......I have killed many threads in my time.....including some of my own. Does that mean I am so brilliant that I cannot top myself??????

I could see based on some of your posts, Ace, why you would be hard to follow, kind of like trying to sing right AFTER Kristen Chenowith or Barbra Streisand

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Originally Posted by heremainsfaithful
Oooooooo......I have killed many threads in my time.....including some of my own. Does that mean I am so brilliant that I cannot top myself??????

I could see based on some of your posts, Ace, why you would be hard to follow, kind of like trying to sing right AFTER Kristen Chenowith or Barbra Streisand


Thanks for your kinds words, Luri/HRF. Interesting you say that because by the time you arrived over there the second time I was seldom posting at all...and mostly on my own threads.

Interesting that there is a thread in OT over there asking if people know of any good blogs. It took all the self-restraint I had to NOT post a link to our MA Blogging Central forum. Sit on my hands, sit on my hands, sit on my hands!!!



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Re: I declare myself MA's first official thread killer [Re: herfuturesbright] #9450
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Add me to the threadkiller list...

Jen...I'm so glad you're on a forum where you can just make a thread and say it.

And when no one responds, you really do know you're a threadkiller.

LOL

I think if you post a lot, you're going to experience this belief...when you're the last post on a thread. Odds are, for OPs (original posters) who don't come back for whatever reasons, yours is the last there.

And that's okay. The OPs might be starting multiple threads, or switching to blogging format...who knows. Don't take the worst idea (you killed the thread) and make it what you believe.

Not knowing is not knowing.

Because of this thread, I now have a post to myself to go to when I begin feeling like a threadkiller myself.

Please remind me in the future...

None of this applies to Star or Ace, though. They REALLY are threadkillers.

:::ducking:::

LA

PS - See that Herf? I drop a bomb and run. grin


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Re: I declare myself MA's first official thread killer [Re: Ace] #9451
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Funny, Ace.....I thought that it was because of the blogging section here.

Sorta like......we can have blogs too, and already have some.....so THERE!!

LOL

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I have often felt like I stopped a thread in it's tracks.
So I go back and reread what I wrote, then I do it again, and again .....

looking to see what the heck did I say that scared everyone off! LOL

It's funny to have a thread about this, but it's nice to know that
I'm not the only one who takes it personal, lol.


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I thought I was a threadkiller extraordinaire, until I started a certain thread in the Thunderdome. Which will go on forever, most likely!

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Originally Posted by Chrysalis
I thought I was a treadkiller extraordinaire, until I started a certain thread in the Thunderdome. Which will go on forever, most likely!


You're right, Chrysalis...that thread will probably be foreverhers (or forevertheirs) for 2long. LOL! cool

Don't know about you but I'm learning lots (and being challenged to do some research) by that thread. Amazing how the discussion is remaining somewhat civil, considering the inherent volatility of the topic.

Thanks for starting it,
Ace



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I was thinking of just bumping a thread on another forum to see how long it takes before someone else replies...



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And here *I* thought I was the only one too!!!!!!........ grin

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Ha ha Not, you're not the threadkiller.


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Originally Posted by star*fish
threadkiller=a member whose posts seem to end posting on a thread, running off all other posters, leaving their final post frozen in time with no responses...essentially "killing" the thread.


Ah. Me. smile grin


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Originally Posted by KiwiJ
Ha ha Not, you're not the threadkiller.


HEYYYYYYY now...you're taking all my "glory"....I wanna be the Queen Threadkiller...... grin

did ya all happen to notice, the longest stretch of silence was AFTER my post...... wink

Not


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oh you wish, 2Long.

Heehee...we can all try to be the last on this thread.

You're delightful, Not.

You really are.

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Hellllllllooooooo.........

LA,

You broke my record....... :mad:

But I find you delightfully keen anyway....... grin

Now, back to being the Queen Threadkiller.......

Not


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