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Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: believer] #75244
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Originally Posted By: believer
That is ironic, BBJ.

Belle, Romeo logged off and didn't IM. Maybe it's all innocent.


What kind of innocent man in serious relationship will make a profile of himself online?

Did he get a taxpayer funded grant to study Californian field mice and got lost?



"A desire presupposes the possibility of action to achieve it; action presupposes a goal which is worth achieving." - Ayn Rand
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: pookie69] #75252
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There goes the beer all over the screen...................


"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: believer] #75265
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Does it say how long he has had a profile?

Well I am glad he didn't respond. Sad part is my friend texted me how her weekend went and how he told her he loves her. He likes to flirt and I know he has even done it in front of her (waitresses) and she has called him out on it and he said he didn't think anything of it.

He has never come across as a playa to me. IDK. This blows.


Me: 37
H: 39
DD: 3
Married 14 yrs
Dated: 5
Bomb 7/10
H's EA turned PA turned EA again.

Currently taking back control of my life.

When the pain of where you are becomes more than the fear of where you are going change will occur.
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Belle96] #75270
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I can't tell how long, but he seems to be looking for a relationship. He took the dating test, and also said he was wanting to meet someone for a long term relationship.


"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: believer] #75272
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Originally Posted By: believer
I can't tell how long, but he seems to be looking for a relationship. He took the dating test, and also said he was wanting to meet someone for a long term relationship.


What is the lifespan of the Californian field mice?



"A desire presupposes the possibility of action to achieve it; action presupposes a goal which is worth achieving." - Ayn Rand
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: pookie69] #75273
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OMG, Pookie - Stop being a scientist!!!!!!!!!!!


"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: believer] #75287
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I just took a few of those tests on okcupid and found out why I can't get a date.


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Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Violin] #75290
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Originally Posted By: Violin
I just took a few of those tests on okcupid and found out why I can't get a date.


haha! Wow, I need to check out those test !!!


Me: 37
H: 39
DD: 3
Married 14 yrs
Dated: 5
Bomb 7/10
H's EA turned PA turned EA again.

Currently taking back control of my life.

When the pain of where you are becomes more than the fear of where you are going change will occur.
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Belle96] #75298
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I just took another one: What Lover style are you?

I got: Romantic Lover


Me: 36
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Divorce final july 2010
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Violin] #75300
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Keep taking the questions until you get to:

Do you know what sperms tastes like? crazy

Be honest.



"A desire presupposes the possibility of action to achieve it; action presupposes a goal which is worth achieving." - Ayn Rand
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: pookie69] #75302
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LOL!


Me45 - S13, D11
Disconnected 7/1/12

I'm a brand new sky to hang the stars upon tonight......
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Danf] #75304
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I encountered that question last year! Some of the sex questions were written by the "loud" girl I dated last April. smile


Me: 36
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Divorce final july 2010
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Violin] #75308
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I'm a Romantic Lover too !!!!!!! Hahaha


Me: 37
H: 39
DD: 3
Married 14 yrs
Dated: 5
Bomb 7/10
H's EA turned PA turned EA again.

Currently taking back control of my life.

When the pain of where you are becomes more than the fear of where you are going change will occur.
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Belle96] #75311
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I scored "Perfect Human" on the "Why do People Hate you?" test! lol

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Me: 36
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Divorce final july 2010
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Belle96] #75313
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Originally Posted By: Belle96
I'm a Romantic Lover too !!!!!!! Hahaha


Welcome!


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Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Violin] #75320
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I canceled my match profile but I can still write in this thread because I am still taking stupid quizes on okcupid.


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Divorce final july 2010
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: Violin] #75341
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SO, I'm just putting this out there: I think that match and cupid and whatever are great and all, but I found someone pretty freakin' cool in NO time on a faith based site. I think it could be any specialty site, and you'll have better luck. You'll start with a pre-selection of people that are into whatever you're into. Also with the faith based sites, I imagine you weed out some of the pervs.


Trying my hardest.
Learning every day.
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OTS - Faith Based Sites do have the pre-selection factor. But I imagine they don't weed out all of the pervs. That's one of the hazards of online dating.


"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."
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Originally Posted By: believer
OTS - Faith Based Sites do have the pre-selection factor. But I imagine they don't weed out all of the pervs. That's one of the hazards of online dating.


I thought you LIKED pervs B?


Me45 - S13, D11
Disconnected 7/1/12

I'm a brand new sky to hang the stars upon tonight......
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There sure are a lot of them, that's all I know.

DrummerGuy finally asked me for a date.

Sort of.


"I feel sad that I focused so much on his potential and so little on mine."
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Just messing with you B. smile

Maybe you can double date with flowmom and the 4 of you can form a band!


Me45 - S13, D11
Disconnected 7/1/12

I'm a brand new sky to hang the stars upon tonight......
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: believer] #75433
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Violin, I had the same petting-the-pig with my ex recently! Bizarre!

Happy Birthday Dan! Sounds like an awesome feast! Liking/not liking rollercoasters doesn't seem like a very important relationship criterion to me wink I think it's waaay too early to do HNHN stuff!

HiH, so that's St Pete girl on FB...she's beautiful. You're right about this:
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I think a cool, calm and collect approach works best. Show confidence and decisiveness attracts the women who have their stuff together and not the co-dependent type.

Believer, it's so fun how you're tweaking your profile! I like how you think! If you're on FB, friend me. I just know you will find someone soon. You have an attractive personality smile Hope the date goes well with Drummer.

Belle, that sucks about Romeo - I'm sorry but secretly being on a dating site while being in a relationship is inappropriate no matter what. Before you work on your weight, work on feeling attractive. It's not about the number on the scale...it really isn't. Ask yourself what YOU find attractive, and be that woman.

CR, I really felt I had to get to know a guy pretty well before asking about how the marriage ended. Also, that's how I got straight answers. Getting to know someone takes time, and online dating shouldn't be a shortcut where you make someone take a quiz to find out their red flags IMO. A guy actually did quiz me a lot. I laughed and acted amused, but it turned me off even though I was really into him. Think of online dating as an introduction service only.

Bruce, congrats on not having herpes! But mold sucks! Glad you're having fun with your gal. Sounds like a really nice pace, though it's time to kiss her!

BBJ, I hope you find someone with chemistry soon smile

Pookie, lol about your field mice joke! So spit...how are things going with you dating-wise?


we: me44 + my husband Pookie :9: + S9 + D6
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: BBJTeachRun] #75434
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So I just got back from winter wonderland in a mountain cabin with my kids. Beautiful!

Guitarist stayed over last night. It just seems like the chemistry is getting stronger! LOVING the PEA thumbsup .


we: me44 + my husband Pookie :9: + S9 + D6
Re: My Online Dating Experience...others please chime in! [Re: flowmom] #75440
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Hey Flo! Yes, the blond pictured with me is the St. Pete girl. She is a beauty...a little prettier than my stbxw...I took all of my stbxw pictures off out of respect to her. It is a shame that the St. Pete girl does not want to move to the US, but she has a successful business and does not want to leave and I am successful here and do not want to move to Russia...such as life I guess.


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You have a pig, Flow?


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