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Re: Reunion Station [Re: crazed student] #889
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Thank you! And great to see you, CS. (Gotta get used to that.) smile


Married 19 years
Two children - DS12 & DD10
Re: Reunion Station [Re: SIHW] #894
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Originally Posted by SIHW
Some of us were infamous-he who should not be named AKA MEDC. razz

*pokes MEDC* hiya!


yes, quite the drop off from being one of the chosen to being shunned! I have certainly become a bit of a fly in the ointment.



Don't go shaking the [Bleep!] tree and expect an angel to fall out.

Liars lie and cheaters cheat...know it and don't be surprised. Protect yourself.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: Medc] #899
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No, MEDC, you will always be one of the chosen.

I STILL remember our first disgreement and how I grew to watch for your posts - so refreshing after hearing the same old rhetoric, day after day.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: believer] #901
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You know, after I was banned, I went through the worst crisis, embarrassed, ashamed, thinking I was the only pariah. I wish I'd known back then that people were dropping like flies.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: catperson] #905
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Oh, I'm so sorry catperson. But there were lots of wonderful posters who either got banned or quit. I hated to see it happen. I didn't manage to get banned, but one of my last posts was about MB being the real loser because of all of the behind the scenes attacks and mockery.

And the saddest thing was watching people get targeted by the "in group", while not having any idea what was going on.

Hope you will feel safe and appreciated with us here.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: believer] #906
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Oh definitely. Looking back, I should have seen it. I think the first month I was there, I made the mistake of making a comment like 'this infidelity could be a blessing because you can have an even better marriage, if you don't take it for granted and work to make it better than ever.' I was really trying to help this person see she could have hope, but you'd think I was raping babies or something, the way a certain poster/mod tore into me; she made me feel SO stupid and she was so condescending. I should have seen the signs back then.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: catperson] #909
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There was really no way you could have seen it. Who expects to come to a marriage support board and get viciously attacked?

Actually I admire the posters who got banned. I always just backed down. I like the ones who went out with guns blazing.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: believer] #916
09/03/10 08:23 PM
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Yeah well I never took her *censored* and I gave it back to her wrapped in a pretty ticking package....thus I got banned.Also why you won't find hardly any of my posts from the end.


Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepair to die.
"Constant and determined effort breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles."
Re: Reunion Station [Re: SIHW] #918
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I wouldn't know; I'm not allowed on, even as a viewer. My IP address is blocked.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: catperson] #920
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Wow, that's cold.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: catperson] #921
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I was a bit gutted when you vanished cat - I think I even asked and got a "speculation doesn't help MBing" edit. You were making sense to me.


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Which way do you like yourself? ~ Stosny
Re: Reunion Station [Re: Squeaky Tree] #923
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two words cat.....proxy server.....it's a wonderful thing.


Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepair to die.
"Constant and determined effort breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles."
Re: Reunion Station [Re: SIHW] #925
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I didn't get banned, just edited for saying something I KNEW would get me edited wink I knew it was time for me to leave when I couldn't resist posting things that would get edited.

I simply decided it wasn't worth my time or energy to post at a place I had no respect for. smile

Re: Reunion Station [Re: Lifechoice] #930
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Others I'd love to invite (like believer) but have no email address that works...

are Bramblerose and ark^^
Owl
LovingBoundaries
Who_dat

in case one of you fab peoples (and you all are) might have them stowed away. The email addresses, not the persons.

Maybe LostHusband has it? Hmmm?

LA


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Re: Reunion Station [Re: LovingAnyway] #932
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LA -

Hi, and glad to see you. I have email addresses for a couple hundred people. I'll invite them.

These are folks that sent me support emails during the uproar at the other place. Maybe some will show up.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: LovingAnyway] #935
09/03/10 10:27 PM
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And Orchid! (unless she's already here under another name and I'm too obtuse to see it).

Re: Reunion Station [Re: LovingAnyway] #936
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I got an email from Bramblerose a handful of years ago. I don't know if I still have it, though. I'll check.

I wish I could contact ark^^ as well, but I don't think I ever had her email.

WAT would be another asset, but last time I talked 2 him, he was enjoying retirement with his boat and his new squeeze, and didn't want anything 2 do with discussion forums. But I still have his email.

Owl posts semi-regularly on loveshack.org. I don't have an email for him, though. I *think* it's okay 2 post links there, but I'm pretty sure it's not okay 2 post emails. Would have 2 re-read their Toss, though.

I think I have LovingBoundaries' contact info, if she's who I think she is on iloveulove.com. Haven't heard from her in several months, though. Hoping she's just busy and not in any crisis.

-ol' 2long

Re: Reunion Station [Re: 2long] #938
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There are a handful of other former MBers on loveshack, 2. I "know" some of them, but have never had their contact info.

-ol' 2long

Re: Reunion Station [Re: right here waiting] #941
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Originally Posted by right here waiting
And Orchid! (unless she's already here under another name and I'm too obtuse to see it).


I talk to orchid on a daily basis. I will forward on the request.


Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepair to die.
"Constant and determined effort breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles."
Re: Reunion Station [Re: SIHW] #946
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Request to Orchid has been accepted. She will try to stop by.


Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepair to die.
"Constant and determined effort breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles."
Re: Reunion Station [Re: SIHW] #950
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Hokay...

2rns out I still had email addys from one or 2 contacts with WAT, Still Seeking, ark^^, and AD. So I sent out some emails. We'll see if they respond!

-ol' 2long

Re: Reunion Station [Re: 2long] #961
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I sent one to mimi, but it came back undelivered.

Darn.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: believer] #962
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The one I sent 2 WAT did, 2, so I remembered I had called him 2 meet for a feed a few years ago, and he answered. He's doing well, doesn't have internet much anymore (on his boat a lot), but he'll try 2 check in when he gets a chance.

-ol' 2long

Re: Reunion Station [Re: 2long] #964
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I see so many names here of people that I knew over on mbers...some I battled with at times...some not. I am curious to see how we get along without the idiocy and baiting that went on over on that board.
I know I have a short memory when it comes to junk like that.
Heck, if 2long and I can see eye to eye, I think there might be hope for rebuilding some bridges! wink




Don't go shaking the [Bleep!] tree and expect an angel to fall out.

Liars lie and cheaters cheat...know it and don't be surprised. Protect yourself.

Re: Reunion Station [Re: Medc] #967
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LOL, medc, always thought you and 2long were cut from the same cloth.

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