Hey I got mine to stop talking to me altogether. I told his mom the truth about his adulterous misdoings and that along with the fights that would start when we would see each other and I would not accept his treatment of me. He now says he will only talk through the intermediary who doesn't want to deal with him as he has frustrated her just as much with his condescending tone and rude comments.

So it's kind of a stand off...he's too busy with his new perfect and happy adulterous situation to take care of the responsibilities. And I can't talk to him about when he's going to get the rest of his stuff myself(because he threatens a restrainging order if I don't go through the intermediary) and the intermediary just doesn't want to deal with him period on anything anymore.

At least you can have civil conversation. I am proud of you for sticking it out. I know it's tough.