Have you ever read that Between Parent and Child, by Hiam Ginott? It talks about helping our kids get past their hurts, by acknowledging their feelings. Do you notice how folks don't hardly ever get defensive with LA, even when she touches on stuff that they would snap at other folks if they mentioned?
Very good book, I wish everyone could read it.
Married 22years (this year) ~13y since dday(?) DD17 DS14 Which way do you like yourself? ~ Stosny