The name of this site is Marriage Advocacy. I can still advocate for marriage while deciding to end my own. I am obviously on the fence, or I would have cut bait a long time ago.

1. He had an emotional affair 5 years ago.

2. Yes, he says he loves me. I'm the one unable to return that statement at the moment.

3. Part of this is the job thing. It's ongoing, stressful and way more complicated than just the fact that he has no job.