Originally Posted by Fergie
Originally Posted by LadyGrey
Implied in your comments is the notion that having an affair is the worst thing one spouse can do to the other. I do not agree with that sentiment.

Apparently your husband doesn't either, but that is atypical for most husbands.

I really want to have this conversation. Why is that? I don’t get it AT ALL. So I had sex with another man 8 years ago. So what? I’ve MORE than made up for it.

Is this some puritanical take where the woman is forever ruined because she had the penis/vagina interaction?

Why is the sex bit of it more offensive than the FACT that I adored him and loved every.single.second of my time with him? Or the fact that I miss him and think of him every day?

Why is the penis/vagina thing the be all and end all for men? It’s just so shallow and really sort of yucky.

Bidden or not bidden God is present.