The only question I have ever had about relationship is why did your husband stay? Even a MA former member and reconciling BH called it quits earlier this year and he was supposed to be a success story and had a much longer recovery period.

I've been kinder to your husband than most here (frankly because he doesn't deserves to be made out as the devil), but anymore I don't care about him. He chooses to stay.

Both of you deserve the spouse you tolerate.