(((((HUGS))))) - It's a very emotionally healthy and honest person who wants and needs their grief space, without being artificially propped up/cheered/look-at-the-bright-side, etc. At this time the most inauthentic thing people do is try to lift someone out of their grief especially when the loss is so fresh.

My condolences.

Consider that we don't have to live with the consequences of our advice in your life. Act according to what you can live with!