LG fwiw I backed off when B’s mom decided to go live with his sister. SiL took her off all her meds and she died within 2 months. She explained it to us at the time and I thought well it’s out of my hands, but then when she died I felt I had made the wrong decision. Any home can tell you when you leave parents there who don’t want to be there, they quickly lose their will to live. Where I live folks who are well- off arrange round the clock care at home, is this an option?

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