Originally Posted By: Miranda
Exactly. You don't have to be sitting at home "keeping things nice" for the moment of his arrival or whatever.

F that shinola! You're not a handmaiden. You're an independent being with an agenda and priorities of your own. Go live your life!

That never occurred to me as a possible outcome. I've been doing this so long it is all I know how to do.

Bidden or not bidden God is present.