Dear sweet LG, of course you went to your brother and his family..... it's the only thing that a dear sweet person can do.

Try to be as gracious as you can toward your H..... not everyone is able to handle this much tragedy especially in such a short period of time. That can make a person minimize things for a while in order to cope. It's not really about you even though it's directed towards you.

Take extra care of yourself to replenish often.

Praying for you all.