P.S. I think the "pile on" situation I observed at MB was very abusive. That was years ago, though. Posters were simply not allowed to question directives given...

It was like a middle school gang beat up of very already victimized people. They couldn't see that many BS are bullied before they ever got there, and some of their postings were just as passive, implied shame and actually intimidating. Then, instead of actually moderating - the "mods" pile on too. Nightmare.

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Me: 50
XH: 13 - well, does emotional age count?
DD1: 24
DD2: 20
30 year partnership...

M: Dec, 1987
Bomb: May 12, 2014
D: Oct, 2015
I am learning how to surf!