My dear LG,

What you are doing for your brother and his family is beautiful and gracious. Your family will be there for you when you get home and even though they miss you will understand.

This is a difficult time and you have rose to the occasion as a gracious supporter to your family.

What you decide to do to deal with the grief of yourself and your family is respected. What others do or don't do is their business, no disrespect intended.

Glad your H was by your side to help out from near and far.

Hugz to you and your family.