I really am not looking for any more of those. I get enough slapped on my by myself and my spouse.
I am not looking for "you should do that, you should do this". I know what I shoulda, coulda, woulda. Don't need to hear more shoulda/coulda/woulda from outside forces.
I should (there's that word again!) probably move this to a blog because that's what it is. I am just putting this out there, more for my own benefit. The last 3-4 postings I've made...if I haven't made it clear, I am really more journaling than anything else.