Sat down w/ him and went through this month's income/outgo. It is pretty dismal. I kept to the facts though...no editorializing.

Still, he said "do you know how this all makes me feel? I should be the one bringing in the big paycheck...."

I have to admit I just stopped him at that point and said

"I am only interested in the numbers at the moment. Here is outgo, which is larger than income. What plans do you have to help even that out?"

He pitched a hissy fit. I left the room.

However....

I'm not very upset over that!