That's my plan, actually. I am not planning a long, drawn-out, whiney "i'm unhaaaaaaaaaaaaapy" discussion. Kids will not be home this weekend and I have written my cheat-sheet.

1. Get help for depression

2. Stop drinking

And I will stay.

If not, I will move out with the kids (I have a place lined up now) and he can deal with the house and the fallout.