That's my plan, actually. I am not planning a long, drawn-out, whiney "i'm unhaaaaaaaaaaaaapy" discussion. Kids will not be home this weekend and I have written my cheat-sheet.
1. Get help for depression
2. Stop drinking
And I will stay.
If not, I will move out with the kids (I have a place lined up now) and he can deal with the house and the fallout.