Congrats on the grandbaby! I'm sorry to hear about DSS-1 getting a divorce so soon. That's a tough thing. Hopefully he can see that both parents need to be involved in the baby's life and effectively co-parent.
Hard to lose dear ones who've been so important to our survival - our sanity. My heart goes out to you. I've found myself looking for little acts of kindness and noticing the more I look the more I see it. It's hard to tune out the negative-delusional voices around us, especially when they've taken up residence in a spouse, as well as our own heads. My husband's antics during his manic depressive stages has now met a reckoning for him in that he's seeing his behavior over the years without the fog of mental illness. The shame and rage of those voices in his head are threatening to drive him out of the sane place he's worked so hard to find.
While it's a beautiful thing to see prayers answered, I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. Except a small dose for your husband. His cruelty deserves some consciousness like what K-man is going through now.
Hi. My best friend is going through a very rough patch in her marriage. No infidelity. I recommended the Harley books to them and they have both read and loved a couple. She feels they need outside help and wants to use Steve Harley. Does anyone have any info on him and how well people like him as a counselor?
