Author Archives: Mark1952

Anatomy of an Affair: Accidental Affairs

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An accidental affair is not always a one night stand (ONS), though many ONSs are accidental in the way they take place. What I mean by accidental is that there was no real decision to cheat, no underlying marital problem … Continue reading

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Anatomy of an Affair: Fifteen Steps to Infidelity

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This list of Fifteen Steps to Infidelity was compiled through interviews, counseling and correspondence with members of churches that had found themselves in the grips of an affair. They are not theories or things that could happen but were identified … Continue reading

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Anatomy of an Affair – Seven Myths About Infidelity

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Seven Myths About Infidelity Dr. Frank Pittman lists 7 myths about affairs that I think need to be addressed before going much further. According to him, these 7 myths are: Having an affair will improve my marriage If there is … Continue reading

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Anatomy of an Affair – Some Facts About Infidelity

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Some Facts About Infidelity   Polls show that 90% of married people disapprove of extramarital relationships. Statistics from a recent National survey indicate that 15% of wives and 25% of husbands have engaged in extramarital sex by the age of … Continue reading

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Anatomy of an Affair: What Is an Affair?

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According to the Pew Research Center, 84% of Americans say that married people having an affair is “morally unacceptable.” Yet, current research shows that “20 to 40% of heterosexual married men and 20 to 25% of heterosexual married women will also … Continue reading

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Boundaries In Marriage and Interpersonal Relationships

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Boundaries are perhaps one of the most tossed about ideas in discussions of marriage and problems within marriage and families. The word “boundaries” is often so misunderstood that discussions about boundaries seem to permeate nearly every thread of those dealing with … Continue reading

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