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Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' #439055
10/08/18 06:07 PM
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"Sounds like a bridezilla in the making.

While it isn’t that uncommon for couples to have unspoken rules to ensure a happy relationship, one woman took it to the extreme by drafting a lengthy contract detailing 22 requirements for her boyfriend to sign."

Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy'

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Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439057
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How horrifying “if I catch you around girls I’ll kill you”. Good thing they are bringing awareness that this is totally unacceptable.


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Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439058
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Wow. Just WOW.

Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439059
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wow, narcissitic, self-absorbed, and terrified of being upstaged by other women. Run!


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Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439061
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not that I disagree with any of the above....
but I thought the specificity of the "rules" made it sound like an existing relationship that needed a checklist.

BF may not be relationship material and values time with other more and has possibly cheated in the past.

but yeah, it's pretty controlling. who wants to be the relationship police?

Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439063
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Yeah sure looks like he's a wayward and she's trying to lock him into a cage to keep him from straying... not the recommended approach frown

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Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439085
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Sounds to me like the note was written by someone very young, like high school age. The fact that the note was found in a used car instead of in his wallet gives me hope that the boyfriend didn't value the new rules.

Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: Fergie] #439117
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Without the context, I'd hesitate to give any opinion on it at all. Looks like the typical social media outrage porn to me.


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Re: Girlfriend's 'controlling' list of 22 rules for boyfriend goes viral: 'She sounds crazy' [Re: AntigoneRisen] #439351
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I agree with Antigone. It's too bizarre and absent of support information to credit it as anything as internet bait.


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