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Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Lil] #9615
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Hi LA,

I always enjoyed your posts. This forum is such a good idea.


What we think or what we know or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do. ~ John Ruskin
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Comfortably Numb] #9658
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Lafemme - We're honored this is the first forum you've posted on. I hope you keep going and going so you can you contribute with every post.

CN - Right back atcha. I'm glad you like it and hope you'll stick around, start a blog, find your niche.

Chrisner...welcome, welcome...you bring a lot of joy with you. Glad you're here so you can some showered on ya, too.

LA


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Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Gladstone] #9808
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Wow, it is really great to see everyone here. It took me a while to get back and post, so much going on with work and school and then my Mom was in a serious car accident. Not long after that happened, I had to go to court for one last hurrah because of ex's non-payment of spousal support. I guess his gf got tired of paying it, LOL! smile

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: ItGetsBetter] #9815
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It's about time you got here woman! I got you a smilie!

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Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepair to die.
"Constant and determined effort breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles."
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: SIHW] #9824
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Originally Posted by SIHW
It's about time you got here woman! I got you a smilie!

[Linked Image]


Yaaaaaaay!! Thank you. I love it!!

I haven't been able to do that lately. Maybe next month. smile

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: ItGetsBetter] #9853
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I have a friend that is on the verge of divorce. The announcement was made last month. I don't think she will come here, though. She was on another site before and had a bad experience.

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: ItGetsBetter] #9862
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Sorry to hear that, Shiny. You can invite her over to at least lurk, and see if she thinks this is a place that can help support her.


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Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: JimK] #9958
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Originally Posted by JimK
Sorry to hear that, Shiny. You can invite her over to at least lurk, and see if she thinks this is a place that can help support her.


Jim


Thank you, Jim. I will try. Have a great day. smile

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: ItGetsBetter] #10026
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Hey there Shiny! Great to see you here.


Jen

FWW 18 month PA 2002-2003 (old HS boyfriend)
Happily Married :o)

I'm a bear of little brain and big words bother me.
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: silentlucidity] #10152
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Originally Posted by silentlucidity
Holy Cannoli! Chrisner is here! I look forward to his first reference to a Ka-Bar thumbsup


Hey, I missed this! It's a good place to find. I stumbled across a post by Bob Pure just a couple minutes before it was edited and the thread locked showing another poster the directions here. So I followed the bright light.

I wondered what had happened to some of my favorite people.

SL! What kind of irresponsible poster would discuss combat knives on infidelity threads? Or Mossberg shotguns. Or…..ummmm…..woodchippers. or Zulus, thongs, belly button rings, sniper rifles, tattoos, margaritas….and stuff?

Last edited by chrisner; 10/13/10 05:32 PM. Reason: Stay Away From the Fog !
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: chrisner] #10157
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I was contacted on FB by miss Rin (Strvn). Then Queenie contacted me; we had a nice long chat and I started lurking. I realized this was a better place for me now; more accessible to those of us who are now divorced and working on new relationships.
Originally Posted by Chrisner
So I followed the bright light.


Like a moth to a flame wink

Don't forget sippy cups

Last edited by silentlucidity; 10/13/10 06:12 PM. Reason: Is it that fog that turns you inside out?
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: silentlucidity] #10162
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Don't forget sippy cups


I miss that guy. I hope he is well.


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Like a moth to a flame wink



More like a deer to the headlights. A far more spectacular wreck.


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I realized this was a better place for me now; more accessible to those of us who are now divorced and working on new relationships.

I agree totally. I will always love and appreciate what MB and my poster group did for me and my personal recovery but it seems like the right time to go.

It was starting to feel like a Russian soldier being herded from the river into Stalingrad by his pistol waving officers ready to shoot anyone who wavered in their devotion to Mother Russia.

I lurked most of the day and when I went through the User List and saw who all was here I registered immediately.

Thinking about venturing into that blog forum....hmmmmmm...


(My NPR station is playing Orff's Carmina Burana! Makes me want to grab a pike and assault the castle breech!)


Last edited by chrisner; 10/14/10 08:25 PM. Reason: I dundst spels sew gud
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: chrisner] #10165
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I miss that 'guy' too. Last I heard, he was doing some duty smirk and enjoying the scenery.

Originally Posted by Chrisner
Thinking about venturing into that blog forum....hmmmmmm...


Go for it!

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: silentlucidity] #10171
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Chisner, I just want to go on record as saying that I would love to read your blog!

Lol...my iPhone made you "Chrysler"

Last edited by star*fish; 10/13/10 07:10 PM. Reason: Stupid iphone

"Yes, I'll have the love combo, open faced with a side of respect and large a glass of forgiveness, easy on the ice please--my brother
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: star*fish] #10179
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Lol...my iPhone made you "Chrysler"


Chrysler? Hmmmmmm........Probably a pre-40's DeSoto

Last edited by chrisner; 10/13/10 07:25 PM. Reason: 5 To Go Gladstone!
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: star*fish] #10223
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Originally Posted by star*fish
Chisner, I just want to go on record as saying that I would love to read your blog!

Lol...my iPhone made you "Chrysler"


Originally Posted by chrisner's PS

Edited by chrisner (Wed Oct 13 2010 12:25 PM)
Edit Reason: 5 To Go Gladstone!


Hey Chrisner,

I'm joining Star and Lil (and others) in wanting to read your blog. If you start it, you could rack up those 5 more posts in a heartbeat!

Ace

P.S. Your stories and Star*fish's posts to you were two of the reasons I registered and started posting over there years ago. Glad you're now here, too.


We're overcoming decades of marital dysfunction including abuse, passive aggression, gas-lighting & infidelity (both of us).

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Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: ItGetsBetter] #10246
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Originally Posted by ShinyLover
Originally Posted by SIHW
It's about time you got here woman! I got you a smilie!

[Linked Image]


Yaaaaaaay!! Thank you. I love it!!

I haven't been able to do that lately. Maybe next month. smile



Aaaaaaawwwwww.......I just laid claim to this smiley!!!!! HOWEVER, I PROMISED I would "unclaimed" when Char got here, SOoooo, in keeping with my word, I now "UNCLAIM" it.....

{{{{{{Shinylover}}}}}}}

So good to see ya!!!!! Does your name have a "special" meaning to it???.... wink

Welcome......

Not


" If you couldn't change your partner when you were together, you sure aren't going to now that you aren't together..." Words of the teacher of the court mandated parenting class...and the ONE thing that stuck out to me!!!
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Not2fun] #10248
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{{{{{{PSU}}}}}}

WELCOME!!!!!!

You are member 125!!!!!!

Congradulations!!!!!!!!!!

Not


" If you couldn't change your partner when you were together, you sure aren't going to now that you aren't together..." Words of the teacher of the court mandated parenting class...and the ONE thing that stuck out to me!!!
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Not2fun] #10414
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Hellooooooo Shinylover! It's about time you got here you crazy lady, lol !!!

Welcome Chrisner and PSU !!!

Lots of other names that I see in the new members box that I don't recognize ........
welcomes to you guy/gals too!


26 yrs. married
There's nothing more powerful than a woman with an open heart ......
Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: Vittoria] #10535
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Still Seeking! SS is in da house!

Woot...oh happy day!

LA


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Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: LovingAnyway] #10600
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133 members today. Woo-hoo! Some names I don't recognize and I hope they are finding us through internet searches, too!

Re: Welcome Aboard, New Members! [Re: KiwiJ] #10602
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Originally Posted by KiwiJ
Hey there Shiny! Great to see you here.


Hi,

Thank you. It's great to be here! I miss a lot of folks I used to talk to, the ones that aren't on FB, that is. LOL!

smile

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Originally Posted by Not2fun
Originally Posted by ShinyLover
Originally Posted by SIHW
It's about time you got here woman! I got you a smilie!

[Linked Image]


Yaaaaaaay!! Thank you. I love it!!

I haven't been able to do that lately. Maybe next month. smile



Aaaaaaawwwwww.......I just laid claim to this smiley!!!!! HOWEVER, I PROMISED I would "unclaimed" when Char got here, SOoooo, in keeping with my word, I now "UNCLAIM" it.....

{{{{{{Shinylover}}}}}}}

So good to see ya!!!!! Does your name have a "special" meaning to it???.... wink

Welcome......

Not


Hi Not,

Long time no see! It's great to see you, too!

Wellllll....just the fact that "Shiny" is part of it makes it special. Hee hee! wink

We had to go back to court for one last hurrah and it was a very good hurrah, even though I wasn't completely present because I was so tired and worn out. Part of me was still back at the hospital with Mom, too. There was still enough of me there to enjoy it. Well, I guess enjoy really isn't the right word. "Appreciate" would work better. Yeah. smile


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Originally Posted by Vittoria
Hellooooooo Shinylover! It's about time you got here you crazy lady, lol !!!

Welcome Chrisner and PSU !!!

Lots of other names that I see in the new members box that I don't recognize ........
welcomes to you guy/gals too!


Ja, dot me, okay. smile

But somebody gotta do it, ja?

highfive

grin

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Just want to say hello. I see some familiar friends from MB. I'll post my story soon.

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