Hey, Hold...

I get that this is your balance...what you evolved over several years to combat your torment. I'm okay with your trade offs, with this self-treaty.

Thing is, doesn't it leave out your wife? Do you believe compliance is agreement?

And how would this be a tragedy if it is what you want? Tragedy for you, for her or the marriage?

The Paradoxical Commandments

Married 28 years/Together 30
Recovered 10 years