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Infidelity and Abandonment
04/15/21 05:27 AM
Hi Cat! waves

So glad to see you posting. Hope all's well in your neck of the woods.

I agree with your red flag list and I'm so sorry Camper has to deal with this. She should make a decision soon.

Best wishes,
Ace
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Blogging Central
04/15/21 02:47 AM
Yes I would like to hear too.
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Blogging Central
04/14/21 05:47 PM
Originally Posted by Fergie
Originally Posted by SmilingWife
There is only one kid here. He is mad at me...or he was last night....because he thinks, feels, maybe rightly so, that I just can’t shut up. But I have asked over and over for it to be dealt with. So what are my options?
Get divorced?

He is mad at you because the bond he has a parent/child is stronger than the bond he has as husband/wife. When you attack his kid, he feels you are attacking him.

Being a step-parent is a thankless job most of the time. It seems both you and your husband have struggled with being step-parents. I'm worried the resentment over kids will shift solely to your marriage after his kid finally moves out. It's been the routine in your family for so long, it will be hard to let go.

But what do I know?


We aren’t getting a divorce. We don’t want a divorce. From what I hear from my friends this is common in intact families with young adults. The only real solution is for these kids to move out and start their own life. And it needs to happen without anger and resentment . Dhs sister told me by the time her step son moved out she hated him. She specifically said do not let it get to that point.
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Infidelity and Abandonment
04/08/21 12:38 PM
Glad you are doing well.
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03/31/21 02:35 AM
LG:

(((LG)))

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Enough is Enough!
03/27/21 07:07 PM
Originally Posted by Ace


Interesting thread and someone was reading it tonight, Nov. 19, 2020....so up it goes.



Someone else is reading today, March 27, 2021 so I'll send this thread up to the top of the scarce heap.

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